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SESO

Thursday, June 17th, 2010

Eat a frog first thing in the morning and the rest of the day will taste better.

I do the tough stuff when I have the most oomph. Putting off the hard work until you cant avoid it squanders your energy. So what if you dont complete it? You got started. My motto is SESO. Start early; start often. I’m forever at square one but i make consistent progress. It’s smarter to do the difficult or unpleasant work when you have the most to give .

SESO: Start Early; Start Often.

Geat me firsto on… start eating…

The Quiet

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

starbucksMy Starbucks is a club of quiet people. We walk in at 4:30 AM and scout our favourite spots. Some of us plug in. Most are older, alone. I haven’t chatted with anyone. None of us are there to talk. We read, we type, and we sip coffee.

It’s drizzling. The lights of the empty parking lot glisten against wet pavement. At 4:30 in the morning everything is alone.

My friend at age 54 just met the love of her life. Another friend is involved with a born-again mechanical engineer. She is bisexual, searching for God, trying to explain to her lover how running from hell isn’t a good enough reason to convert.

My husband-no-longer tries to be nice and fails.

In my kayak, I plough toward the middle of the bay. I’m alone. Cold waves beam the hull. Hips roll too far. A quick slap of the paddle blade and I’m righted.

I feel quietly better.

I, Bad Blogger

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010
Thomas the whippet

"sorry..."

Okay, I haven’t written in a long time. I’m a naughty blogger and I should be punished.

My schedule and my dog’s continual digestive issues make life challenging.  I’m forever saying, “It’s not me. Honest. It’s the dog.”

More soon. Honest.

my productivity sucks

Saturday, January 16th, 2010

One of the reasons my Busy People books sell is because people relate to them. Like everyone else, I’m busy; like everyone else, my productivity often sucks. So the reincarnation of this blog — which used to be on writing – is now Read the rest of this entry »

new and improved?

Saturday, January 16th, 2010

I’m reading Dr. Daniel Amen’s work on the brain. It’s pop neuroscience at its best. I’ve read enough about it to know that Amen’s suggestions are Read the rest of this entry »