Category: Notes

S.E.S.O. Start Early Start Often

eat me firstEat a frog first thing in the morning and everything else will taste much better.

In the software industry, the above classic is morphed into a hybrid: T.E.T.O. — Test Early Test Often.  T.E.T.O. is burnt into my neurons because I spent many years in tech. My personal efficiency motto developed as a natural extension of it:

S.E.S.O. — Start Early Start Often.

It’s a no-brainer. I have the sharpest energy when I Start Early and I make consistent progress when I Start Often.

Starting Early: Getting that frog out of the way makes good sense, efficiency-wise and energy-wise. So what if I there’s more frog tomorrow? At least I start digesting it when I’m capable of eating the most. Once today’s frog is consumed, everything else is better.

Starting Often: I’m forever at Square One but  it doesn’t bother me. Square One stops being a point of frustration when it evolves an old, reliable friend. Yesterday’s completion point is Square One today, frog or no frog.

S.E.S.O. Start Early Start Often.

Go ahead, try it. Let me know how it works for you.

The Quiet

starbucksMy Starbucks is a club of quiet people. We walk in at 4:30 AM and scout our favourite spots. Some of us plug in. Most are older, alone. I haven’t chatted with anyone. None of us are there to talk. We read, we type, and we sip coffee.

It’s drizzling. The lights of the empty parking lot glisten against wet pavement. At 4:30 in the morning everything is alone.

My friend at age 54 just met the love of her life. Another friend is involved with a born-again mechanical engineer. She is bisexual, searching for God, trying to explain to her lover how running from hell isn’t a good enough reason to convert.

My husband-no-more tries to be nice and fails.

In my kayak, I plough toward the middle of the bay. Cold green waves beam the hull. Hips roll too far. A quick slap of the paddle blade and I’m righted.

I feel quietly better.

I, Bad Blogger

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More soon. Honest.

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