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		<title>Practical Neuroscience: Review of &#8220;Buddha&#8217;s Brain&#8221; excites my neurons</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 14:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Book Review for Buddha's Brain: Practical Neuroscience of Happiness Love and Wisdom by Rick Hanson. In a word, really cool. OK, two words. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/practical-neuroscience-review-of-buddhas-brain-excites-my-neurons/&via=dawngroves_&text=Practical Neuroscience: Review of "Buddha's Brain" excites my neurons &related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/practical-neuroscience-review-of-buddhas-brain-excites-my-neurons/&via=dawngroves_&text=Practical Neuroscience: Review of "Buddha's Brain" excites my neurons &related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div id="attachment_1600" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 180px"><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/buddhasbraincover.png"><img class="size-full wp-image-1600" title="buddhasbraincover" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/buddhasbraincover.png" alt="Buddha's Brain" width="170" height="251" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Buddha&#39;s Brain by Rick Hanson Ph.d.</p></div>
<p>I can&#8217;t ignore a book entitled:</p>
<h1><em><a href="http://www.rickhanson.net/writings/buddhas-brain">Buddha&#8217;s Brain:</a></em></h1>
<h3>The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness Love and Wisdom</h3>
<p>Three things I <strong><span style="color: #008080;">immediately like</span></strong> about neuropsychologist Rick Hanson&#8217;s book.</p>
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<li>He focuses on small changes that reap big brain mojo.</li>
<li>He describes brain science in the context of contemplative practice.</li>
<li>He&#8217;s not overly wordy.<span id="more-1588"></span></li>
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;You’ll learn what the brain is doing when the mind is happy, loving and wise. You’ll learn many ways to activate these brain states, strengthening them a bit each time. This will give you the ability to gradually rewire your own brain – from the inside out—for greater well-being, fulfillment in your relationships, and inner peace.&#8221; &#8211;excerpt from the book</p></blockquote>
<h2>Fast-Food Meditation: NOT</h2>
<p>I’m leery of fast food awareness so I appreciated Hanson’s <strong><span style="color: #008080;">brave use of the word “gradually.”</span></strong> He’s honest about it.</p>
<p><strong>Buddha’s Brain</strong> does offer material that’s immediately useful&#8211;strong cognitive tools to bolster us while gradual changes take root. <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Hanson’s description of brain plasticity and neurons is one of the best I’ve encountered for non-scientist types.</strong></span> In fact, I generated a presentation slide depicting neuronal connections, inspired from his work:</p>
<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f3f3f3;"><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/neuron.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1596" style="border-width: 1px; border-color: black; border-style: solid;" title="This is dawn's neuron" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/neuron-300x219.png" alt="This is dawn's neuron" width="300" height="219" /></a></span></p>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd">My neurons are so darn cute.</dd>
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<blockquote><p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">In the spirit of full disclosure, &#8220;that&#8217;s disgusting&#8221; in no way reflects on Hanson&#8217;s book. I&#8217;m just weird. </span></p></blockquote>
<p>The above slide features a stuffed neuron from <a href="http://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=s*O88CytLfI&#038;offerid=228016&#038;type=3&#038;subid=0">GIANTmicrobes</a><img border=0 width=1 height=1 src="http://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=s*O88CytLfI&#038;bids=228016&#038;type=3&#038;subid=0"/>. They sell all kinds of plush creepiness. Action figures too. I’m especially fond of <a href="http://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=s*O88CytLfI&#038;offerid=228016&#038;type=3&#038;subid=0">ebola</a><img border=0 width=1 height=1 src="http://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=s*O88CytLfI&#038;bids=228016&#038;type=3&#038;subid=0"/> below.</p>
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<p><a href="http://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=s*O88CytLfI&#038;offerid=228016&#038;type=3&#038;subid=0"><br />
</a><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/giantmicrobes.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1598" title="cute microbes" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/giantmicrobes-300x241.png" alt="cute microbes at giantmicrobes.com" width="300" height="241" /></a><img border=0 width=1 height=1 src="http://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=s*O88CytLfI&#038;bids=228016&#038;type=3&#038;subid=0"/><p class="wp-caption-text">Adorable Catastrophes</p></div>
<p>But I digress&#8230;</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Hanson&#8217;s topic, the power of contemplative practice, isn&#8217;t new.</strong></span> I&#8217;ve read books on the subject and I&#8217;ve also <a title="Books" href="http://www.dawngroves.com/books/" target="_blank">written them</a>. Still, I found<strong> Buddha&#8217;s Brain</strong> engaging and inspiring. I was originally attracted to the science, but this is also a great book about meditation in general. Hanson&#8217;s easy style, how-to practices, and personal experiences all contribute to his considerable authority on the subject. <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">He makes me want to meditate.</span></strong></p>
<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">Bottom line, this is a worthy read for anyone looking to understand and experience the brain boosting gains from contemplative practices.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.rickhanson.net/">Hanson’s website</a> is equally as appealing, chock full of articles and support material.</p>
<h2>Hey, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">it&#8217;s not just meditation, it’s <em>science</em>.</span></h2>
<p>What books have you enjoyed on this topic? What&#8217;s your favorite microbe? Don&#8217;t be a stranger. I&#8217;d love to hear from you.</p>
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		<title>The Walkstation Magic Bullet that Tripled My Productivity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 04:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn Groves</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetTweetThe karmic backlash when you write about excuses is they retaliate en mass. For a person already plagued by them  (I&#8217;m a writer, remember?), dealing with a galvanized frontal assault is pretty wild. Here&#8217;s how it happened&#8230; The Battle of Excuses Several weeks ago I blogged about creating a treadmill walking station. There are a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/the-magic-bullet-that-changed-my-productivity/&via=dawngroves_&text=The Walkstation Magic Bullet that Tripled My Productivity&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/the-magic-bullet-that-changed-my-productivity/&via=dawngroves_&text=The Walkstation Magic Bullet that Tripled My Productivity&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><p>The karmic backlash when you <a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/2011/02/20/its-time-to-take-action-how-to-stop-the-excuses-a-new-series/">write about excuses</a> is they retaliate en mass. For a person already plagued by them  (I&#8217;m a writer, remember?), dealing with a galvanized frontal assault is pretty wild. Here&#8217;s how it happened&#8230;</p>
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<h2>The Battle of Excuses</h2>
<p>Several weeks ago <a title="I Thought I was Active Until I Read This…" href="http://www.dawngroves.com/i-thought-i-was-active-until-i-read-this/">I blogged about creating a treadmill walking station</a>. There are a thousand healthy reasons to use a walkstation but for me, it&#8217;s about staying alert. Walkstations are supposed to help maintain energy levels throughout the day. I get sleepy in front of a monitor even when I&#8217;ve just exercised.</p>
<p>What I didn&#8217;t mention was my treadmill is an ancient behemoth that weighs a friggin’ ton.  Moving it from the garage into the house wasn&#8217;t a simple logistics issue; it was like dragging a truck. Several lame excuses converged: <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>&#8220;It can&#8217;t be done without a forklift; I can&#8217;t afford to waste my time; It might screw up my back; My garage is too messy for anyone to see it; I have other more urgent matters; It&#8217;s too big; It&#8217;s too ugly; The kitchen needs cleaning.&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p>The treadmill didn&#8217;t move inch one. In the excuse war, I was losing.</p>
<blockquote><p>Excuses 1; Dawn 0.</p></blockquote>
<h3>Two weeks passed&#8230;</h3>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>What treadmill? I thought. I&#8217;m too busy kayaking and swimming and doing active things (all lies btw). </strong></span>Friends finally got disgusted and helped me strongarm it  into the breakfast nook. <strong>Take THAT excuses!</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Dawn 1; Excuses 1.</p></blockquote>
<p>Now I could finally get started. I checked all the <a href="http://www.treadmill-desk.com">treadmill desk websites</a>. In general I needed a wood desktop of some sort, a support beam, a hammer, nails, and other DIY stuff. Being decidedly UNhandy, I opted to do more research. There are several <a href="http://www.instructables.com/id/Treadmill-Desk/">good DIY examples</a> as well as a <a href="http://officewalkers.ning.com/">network of &#8220;office walkers.&#8221;</a></p>
<p>During this time, I enjoyed the comradery of several familiar excuses and rationalizations: <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>&#8220;I really don&#8217;t have time for this; I don&#8217;t do hammers; This is too hard; I have bigger fish to fry; This is ridiculous; I&#8217;m tired; I&#8217;m a writer, not a carpenter; The dog needs to be walked; Who reads this stupid blog anyway?&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p>The treadmill mocked me daily with, <span style="color: #003300;"><strong>&#8220;So much for noble plans, you lazy putz.&#8221; </strong></span></p>
<blockquote><p>Excuses 2; Dawn 1.</p></blockquote>
<h3>Two more weeks passed&#8230;</h3>
<p>The final straw was when I fell asleep in front of the monitor and missed a deadline. Again.  (I&#8217;m a single mom with two kids and a lot of irons in the fire. I have a well greased neural pathway for sleep.)</p>
<p>Furious, I marched into the kitchen, raised my fist and proclaimed, <strong>&#8220;<em>Damn you Treadmill, you&#8217;ll not get the better of me!</em>&#8220;</strong> Then I charged into the garage (<em>yar!</em>), tunneled through years of crap and uncovered an empty refrigerator box. I yanked it from the pile,  stomped the heavy cardboard flat, duct-taped a few support sticks on the underside and, voila! <strong>Desktop! </strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Dawn 2; Excuses 2.</p>
<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">Here&#8217;s my new walkstation.</span></p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_1211" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 155px"><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/walkstation_side2.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1211" title="walkstation_side2" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/walkstation_side2.jpg" alt="Sideview of my DIY walkstation" width="145" height="200" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The side view of my walkstation. Can you see the tip of the cane helping to support the desktop? Thanks, Mom.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1210" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/walkstation_under.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1210 " title="walkstation_under" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/walkstation_under.jpg" alt="underneath my walkstation &quot;desktop&quot;" width="200" height="112" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Here is the underside of my walkstation desktop. Mom&#39;s cane is the support system, along with a few odds and ends.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1212" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/walkstationfeet01sm1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1212" title="walkstationfeet01sm" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/walkstationfeet01sm1.jpg" alt="Walking while working. It's great! " width="200" height="209" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Walking while working. If the cane slips it&#39;s a hassle but oh well. It works!</p></div>
<p><strong>Now the Excuses and I were neck-in-neck at the stretch. I had to do something to push me over the finish line &#8212; I had to actually start using the thing.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Okay, turning it off and on is a hassle but hey, it works. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Question</strong>: Wouldn&#8217;t I rather junk this self-made thing for a sleek and sexy <a href="http://store.steelcase.com/products/walkstation/">Steelcase Walkstation</a>?</p>
<p><strong>Answer</strong>: Uhmmm yeah.  I&#8217;m not an idiot. But this is what I have for now. Check out those sexy shoes.</p>
<h2>Astounding Results</h2>
<p>The walkstation has totally reworked my falling asleep habit pattern. Slow walking while typing washes my brain with energizing oxygen and the non-distracting movement keeps me alert. Holy smokes, the research is correct.</p>
<h3>My focus time is so waaay up.</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve probably <em>tripled</em> the time I can focus on one activity, effectively tripling my productivity. Man, it&#8217;s even better than ADHD meds. The only thing I can&#8217;t do is detailed art. For that I must stop walking. But I&#8217;ve walked up to 8 miles without a thought and gotten more work done than I ever thought possible.</p>
<p><strong>I am SOLD, Baby!</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Dawn 3; Excuses N/A.</p></blockquote>
<p>Today&#8217;s battle of Excuses VS Dawn is over. <strong>Dawn WINS. Bwahahahahahah.</strong></p>
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<h4><span style="color: #000000;">Coming Soon! Interview with blogmeister Michael D. Pollock. </span></h4>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/2011/03/28/how-to-be-unstoppable-an-interview-with-michael-pollock/">An insightful 2-part interview with Michael D. Pollock</a>, creator of the <a href="http://michaeldpollock.com">Bigger Life Blog: How to Make a Living Online By Making a Difference in the World.</a> Michael will discuss ways to partner business and values, while making the best use of your blogs and blogging. Part 2 will be Michael&#8217;s seven thoughts about  &#8221;How to Keep Going When You Feel Like Giving Up.&#8221; Great stuff, all. You can bet I&#8217;ll be reading it while I walk. &lt;grin&gt;</span></p></blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetTweetI&#8217;m writing a series about refuting the validity of favorite excuses. What are your favorite excuses and how do you handle them? I welcome input and opinion. Excuses are the rational backbone of procrastination. The smarter the person, the more rational the excuse. What follows are some of my personal favorites. You&#8217;ve probably thought of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Excuses are the rational backbone of procrastination. <span style="color: #008000;"><strong>The smarter the person, the more rational the excuse. </strong></span>What follows are some of my personal favorites. You&#8217;ve probably thought of them at one time or another:</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/2011/03/04/how-to-stop-the-excuses-i-cant-decide-2-in-the-series/">I can&#8217;t decide</a></li>
<li>I should have started sooner</li>
<li><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/2011/03/05/984/#more-984">I don&#8217;t follow through</a></li>
<li>There&#8217;s no time<span id="more-894"></span></li>
<li>I&#8217;m too tired</li>
<li>It&#8217;s too hard</li>
<li>I&#8217;m not motivated</li>
<li>What if I fail?</li>
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<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Excuses are built on grains of truth. They&#8217;re normal and convincing. </strong></span>That&#8217;s what&#8217;s so insidious about them. It&#8217;s tough to separate the truth from the foul. &lt;Bawk-bawk-buhGAWK&gt; Two reliable assessment methods I use are:</p>
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<li><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Ask a good friend for the truth.</span></strong> &#8220;Kathy, am I being realistically cautious or am I just a big sissy?&#8221; Good friends are honest and they&#8217;ll support you no matter what.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Check your gut.</span></strong> Brains are often biased. Stomachs speak truth. Put your hand against your stomach and ask,&#8221;am I being wise or am I procrastinating?&#8221; What answer do you feel in your stomach?</li>
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<h2>There are many helpful strategies.</h2>
<p><strong>Excuse wrangling requires flexibility, creativity, and some fancy emotional footwork</strong>. Try to dance yourself away from the argument. Don&#8217;t take it too personally: the more you react, the tighter it grabs.</p>
<blockquote><p>Instead of: &#8221;<strong>Oh NO, it&#8217;s back! I always feel this way! I hate it!</strong>&#8221;<br />
Say to yourself: &#8221;<strong>There&#8217;s that same &#8216;ol excuse ambling through my brain again.</strong>&#8220;</p></blockquote>
<p>Because excuses morph frequently, allow yourself to <a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/2011/01/07/two-word-comeback/">cultivate a full quiver of comebacks</a>. You&#8217;ll end up using them all at one time or another.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Once you decide that you&#8217;re being a wuss,  you&#8217;re ready to dissect the excuse de jour.</strong></span> We can start with <a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/2011/03/04/how-to-stop-the-excuses-i-cant-decide-2-in-the-series/">I cant decide what to do</a>.</p>
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		<title>10 Books to Motivate You and Help Your New Year’s Resolutions STICK</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 07:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn Groves</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetTweet1. A subscription to Scientific American Mind. Cutting edge research and thinking. 2. 59 SECONDS: THINK A LITTLE CHANGE A LOT by Richard Wiseman. A specific, debunked set of how-tos in a simple, engaging read. No bull. 3. THE WAY WE&#8217;RE WORKING ISNT WORKING by Schwartz, Gomes, and McCarthy. A timely book that puts into practice [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/10-books-to-motivate-you-and-help-your-new-years-resolutions-stick/&via=dawngroves_&text=10 Books to Motivate You and Help Your New Year’s Resolutions STICK&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/10-books-to-motivate-you-and-help-your-new-years-resolutions-stick/&via=dawngroves_&text=10 Books to Motivate You and Help Your New Year’s Resolutions STICK&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><p><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/goalsreading2.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-471" title="University of California Student Reading" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/goalsreading2-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a>1. A subscription to <strong><a href="http://www.scientificamerican.com/sciammind/">Scientific American Mind</a></strong>. Cutting edge research and thinking.</p>
<p>2. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/59-Seconds-Think-Little-Change/dp/0307273407/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1250761707&amp;sr=8-1">59 SECONDS: THINK A LITTLE CHANGE A LOT</a> by Richard Wiseman. A specific, debunked set of how-tos in a simple, engaging read. No bull.</p>
<p>3. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Way-Were-Working-Isnt-Performance/dp/1439127662">THE WAY WE&#8217;RE WORKING ISNT WORKING</a> by Schwartz, Gomes, and McCarthy. A timely book that puts into practice Schwartz&#8217;s<span id="more-453"></span> keystone philosophy explained in The Power of Full Engagement.</p>
<p>4. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Stress-Free-Productivity/dp/0142000280/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293694260&amp;sr=1-1">GETTING THINGS DONE: THE ART OF STRESS FREE PRODUCTIVITY</a> by David Allen. The Bible for everyone who wants to get their to-do lists under control. But beware, it requires commitment.</p>
<p>5. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Brain-That-Changes-Itself-Frontiers/dp/0143113100/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293694230&amp;sr=1-1">THE BRAIN THAT CHANGES ITSELF</a> by Norman Doidge, M.D. The neuroscience of behavior change. Really cool and quite hopeful.</p>
<p>6. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Power-Full-Engagement-Managing-Performance/dp/0743226755/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293694190&amp;sr=1-1">THE POWER OF FULL ENGAGEMENT: MANAGING ENERGY, NOT TIME, IS THE KEY TO HIGH PERFORMANCE AND PERSONAL RENEWAL</a> by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz . The book I live by. This is an incredible work with tons of research for us data-heads.</p>
<p>7. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Happiness-Scientific-Approach-Getting/dp/B0028N72O4/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293694156&amp;sr=1-1">THE HOW OF HAPPINESS: A SCIENTIFIC APPROACH TO GETTING THE LIFE YOU WANT</a> by Sonja Lyubomirsky, PhD. Another major work in the field of positive psychology. Easy to read, practical, exciting.</p>
<p>8. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Steps-Pain-Free-Life-Rapidly-Relieve/dp/0452282772/ref=br_lf_m_1000469311_1_11_ttl?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;pf_rd_p=1285109702&amp;pf_rd_s=center-2&amp;pf_rd_t=1401&amp;pf_rd_i=1000469311&amp;pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&amp;pf_rd_r=0B6Z4EHTEK925DQ5PDX7">7 SEVEN STEPS TO A PAIN FREE LIFE: HOW TO RAPIDLY RELIEVE BACK AND NECK PAIN</a> by <a id="contributorNameTriggerB001H6N148" href="http://www.amazon.com/Robin-McKenzie/e/B001H6N148/ref=ntt_athr_dp_pel_1">Robin McKenzie</a>. I totally swear by this guy&#8217;s work.</p>
<p>9. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Meditation-Optimum-Health-Mindfulness-Breathing/dp/1564558827/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293694045&amp;sr=1-1">MEDITATION FOR OPTIMUM HEALTH: HOW TO USE MINDFULNESS AND BREATHING TO HEAL YOUR BODY AND REFRESH YOUR MIND</a> by Andrew Weil M. D and Jon Kabat-Zinn. There are a ton of excellent meditation books, websites, and blogs. This is a CD. Listen to it. You know it works.</p>
<p>10. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Drive-Surprising-Truth-About-Motivates/dp/1594488843/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1293694111&amp;sr=1-1">DRIVE: THE SURPRISING TRUTH ABOUT WHAT MOTIVATES US</a> by Daniel Pink. A fascinating work about old accepted motivators and why they don&#8217;t succeed well. He also describes what does work. A must-have book.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2010 05:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn Groves</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetTweetMake Your Resolutions Stick January and February are the traditional months for hauling out your New Year’s resolutions complete with built-in self destruct sequences. The yearly Lose-Ten-Lbs, Exercise-Daily, or Stop-Being-Late goals may be sincere and well executed, but they’re doomed to fail as soon as you become anxious or overwhelmed. It’s your biology. The stressed-out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/2011-jump-start-simple/&via=dawngroves_&text=2011: Jump Start Simple&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/2011-jump-start-simple/&via=dawngroves_&text=2011: Jump Start Simple&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><p><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/j04140351.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-451" title="Oh No I blew it!" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/j04140351-237x300.jpg" alt="Oh No I blew it!" width="237" height="300" /></a><strong>Make Your Resolutions Stick</strong></p>
<p>January and February are the traditional months for hauling out your New Year’s resolutions complete with built-in self destruct sequences. The yearly Lose-Ten-Lbs, Exercise-Daily, or Stop-Being-Late goals may be sincere and well executed, but they’re doomed to fail as soon as you become anxious or overwhelmed.<span id="more-429"></span></p>
<p>It’s your biology. The stressed-out brain resists giving up energy to anything demanding willpower or delayed gratification.<strong>At the right moment, it will fall back into the comfortable, well-worn neural pathways and instant relief of old habits. </strong>This is how the brain manages its energy. It’s an efficient system with an unwelcome side effect: sabotaging healthy behavior change.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/jump.pdf">Read pdf of full article.</a></p>
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		<title>The FeelGood Science Behind Giving</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 17:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetTweetArticle 3 in the series, &#8220;How I Resurrected My Blog and Stuck With It&#8221; will publish on January 25. &#8220;If it feels good, do it.&#8221; &#8212; Timothy Leary Below is an excerpt from a fine article by  author, Wired and NYT correspondent Jonah Lehrer. Check out his fascinating science blog, Frontal Cortex. &#8220;The first thing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/tis-the-season-for-the-science-of-giving/&via=dawngroves_&text=The FeelGood Science Behind Giving&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/tis-the-season-for-the-science-of-giving/&via=dawngroves_&text=The FeelGood Science Behind Giving&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><h6>Article 3 in the series, &#8220;<a href="http://http://bit.ly/d3xX53">How I Resurrected My Blog and Stuck With It</a>&#8221; will publish on January 25.</h6>
<p><strong>&#8220;If it feels good, do it.&#8221; &#8212; Timothy Leary</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Below is an excerpt from a<a href="http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2010/12/the-science-of-charity/"> fine article</a> by  author, <a href="http://www.wired.com">Wired </a>and <a href=" http://www.nytimes.com">NYT</a> correspondent <a href="http://www.jonahlehrer.com">Jonah Lehrer</a>. Check out his fascinating science blog, <a href="http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/frontal-cortex">Frontal Cortex</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The first thing to note about giving away money is that it feels really good. For instance, several brain scanning experiments demonstrate that donating to a worthy cause leads to activation in the<a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/choccake1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-599" title="choccake" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/choccake1-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a> dopamine reward pathway. It’s the same part of the brain that’s turned on when we have sex, or eat a slice of chocolate cake. In fact, there is typically more “reward-related” activity when we donate money than we receive an equivalent amount. Giving is literally better than getting, at least from the perspective of the brain.&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2010/12/the-science-of-charity/">read entire article</a></p></blockquote>
<p>Sure, we all know about the intrinsic value of giving. But its doubly cool when generosity cozies up to sex and chocolate cake.  Ah, the neuroscience of charity. A real turn on.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2010 07:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After reading Lake Superior University's list of banned words, I've been trying to come up with a list of my own. Turns out there's a lot more stuff to ban than just words:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/banned-words/&via=dawngroves_&text=Banned Words&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/banned-words/&via=dawngroves_&text=Banned Words&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><p>After reading Lake Superior University&#8217;s list of banned words, I&#8217;ve been trying to come up with a list of my own. Turns out there&#8217;s a lot more stuff to ban than just words:</p>
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<li>Jeans that reveal butts when seated or squatted.</li>
<li>People advising about weight loss.</li>
<li>Laugh tracks.</li>
<li>Mucus.</li>
<li>Celebrity without skill, talent, or honor.</li>
<li>People who don&#8217;t like animals.</li>
<li>Litter.</li>
<li>Anyone who doesn&#8217;t think I&#8217;m fine.</li>
<li>Dog poop. Add cat poop to that. Poop in general.</li>
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<p>I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ll think of many others.</p>
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		<title>feel the love</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 13:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amen does brain scans showing which parts of our brains we're using and which parts are turned off. The good news is that we can turn these underused areas back on -- ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/feel-the-love/&via=dawngroves_&text=feel the love&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div style="float: right; margin-left: 10px;"><a href="http://twitter.com/share?url=http://www.dawngroves.com/feel-the-love/&via=dawngroves_&text=feel the love&related=dawngroves_:&lang=en&count=none" class="twitter-share-button">Tweet</a><script type="text/javascript" src="http://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><p>How many people really think about their brains? Your brain iisn&#8217;t an organ like, oh, your bladder. The consequences of ingnoring your bladder are loud and predictable. But the noble, remarkable brain is always silent. </p>
<p>I never thought much about my brain beyond <span id="more-121"></span><strong><span style="color: #008080;">smacking my forehead</span> </strong>when I forgot stuff. That is, until I became acquainted with the work of <a href="http://www.amenclinics.com">Dr. Daniel Amen</a> and several other neuroscientists. </p>
<p>Dr. Amen (pronounced Ah&#8217;-mun) is passionate about brain health; he says you should do more than care about your brain; you should <span style="color: #008080;"><strong>love</strong> it.</span>. Amen isn&#8217;t some yahoo with a clever idea. He&#8217;s a Clinical Professor of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at the University of California, Irvine School of Medicine and a leader in applying brain imaging science to clinical practice.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/tangobrain.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-132 alignleft" title="tangobrain" src="http://www.dawngroves.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/tangobrain-300x170.png" alt="i love my brain" width="383" height="256" /></a>Amen does brain imaging showing which parts of our brains we&#8217;re using and which parts are turned off. The good news is that we can <span style="color: #008080;"><strong>turn these underused areas back on</strong></span> &#8212; or at the very least, improve their functioning &#8212; by doing specific kinds of things. Even better, we can <span style="color: #008080;"><strong>prevent deterioration </strong></span>in first place by living brain-healthy lives.</p>
<p>Dr. Amen believes if you <span style="color: #33cccc;"><strong><span style="color: #008080;">love your brain</span></strong></span>, you&#8217;ll <strong><span style="color: #008080;">think twice</span> </strong>about doing evil to it: not sleeping enough, drinking too much, living in toxic stress, eating too many french fries, etc. You know, the typical North American lifestyle.</p>
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<p><em>Let me get this straight. Productivity starts with making good decisions. Decisions happen in the brain. I need to love my brain in order to do right by it. Yikes. No wonder I suck at productivity.</em></p>
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